Thursday, October 1, 2026

Moms' Weekend...

Distefano and Lofton: Back at it...

... continues. When life took Steds mom, Suzanne Lofton, mother of Kennan Lofton '22, from Honolulu, Hawaii to Philadelphia, she could not pass up to stop by and see a fellow Steds mom in New Jersey, Allison Distefano. Suzanne and Allison became friends in 2018 when their sons, Keenan and Luke, were both placed in the oldest and most storied residence hall, Steds. What did they do? Well New York City, was beckoning, and so, Allison took Suzanne hopped on a ferry to the City. Being her FIRST visit to the City, our Hawaiian was a bit an overwhelmed the smell, sounds, and size of it all. Still, a memorable time was had by all. On her visit to the Big Apple, Suzanne shared, "The Big Apple is certainly big, Notre Dame and Steds will always connect us. I truly believe that Mom‘s Weekend truly encouraged all mothers to get to know our son's friends and their moms, and what a blessing to have gained lifelong friendships like this."

To all current Steds moms, TODAY, marks the opening of registering for Mom's Weekend 2027. An email with a registration link was sent earlier this morning. If you did not receive one, then contact Fr. Ralph immediately... as we want you with us!

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... in NYC...

... enjoying the tastes...

... the shows...

... the Park...

... the iconic sights...

... sometimes from a different angle...

... and other sights!

Wednesday, September 30, 2026

The wait is...

Tate: Staying undefeated

... over! The bespoke Steds apparel line has arrived! Right when the weather became more fall like and temperatures dropped precipitously, becoming down right chilly in the mornings, the Steds fall apparel arrived. It couldn't have been better time, the Steds couture fall apparel line arrived so the Stedsmen could not only stay warm but also "rep" Steds about campus and beyond. On receiving being the first to pick up his fall bespoke and couture apparel, Tate Guyton, Steds freshman and resident Michigander, shared, "Just another reason fall at Notre Dame is undefeated.”

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Tuesday, September 29, 2026

Visionaries...

Hickey (L) and Greer (R) with Ed's food techs...

... in our times! Yes, visionaries of what food CAN be! That's what Evan Greer and Caden Hickey are being hailed as after launching a new food idea at Ed's. What is the new item now being offered up to fuel late night studying? Named in honor of Pope Leo XIV, the Papanini is a new panini of Italian beef, provolone, banana peppers, with an optional side of Dijon Mustard. From the creative minds of our managers to the hungry stomachs of Ed's patrons, the Papanini is a most welcome addition to the Ed's line up. How is it? Well, let's just say it has been given the proverbial two thumbs up. On the arrival of Papanini, Fr. Ralph Haag, CSC, Rector and occasion and loyal Ed's patron, shared, "It is a heavenly masterpiece only available at Ed's. So make your night at Ed's night every night!"

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... creating culinary art!


Monday, September 28, 2026

It's official...

The happy couple...

... they're married! With Fr. Ralph witnessing and the Steds family present, Gabriella "Gabby" Belsito '22 of St. Mary's and Alex Morrison '22 of Steds were married at St. John the Evangelist Church in Indianapolis, Indiana. It was a rainy day, but just before things got underway, the rain stop, the sun came out, and it was a perfect day for a wedding! Suffice it to say, it was a day filled with much emotion, tears of joy, and smiles. On Gabby joining the Steds family, Kyle Rubin, Stedsman, Steds Apparel designer, and groomsman, shared, "Finally! Absolutely elated to welcome Gabby to the Steds family. Two of the most genuine people I know, and it was an honor to be included in their special day!"

       Best wishes and congratulations to Gabby and Alex! 


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... exchanged their vows...

... and then celebrated with friends and family...

... and of course, the Steds Family!

Sunday, September 27, 2026

Your Sunday picture...

Picture perfect

... from Notre Dame. Here is a view from the World Peace Prayer Plaza on St. Mary's Lake. With the setting sun and a Van Gogh sky, it is the perfect ending to a beautiful day at Notre Dame. Enjoy, and enjoy your Sunday wherever you may be!

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Saturday, September 26, 2026

Saturday Squirrel.

Dictyoptera mantodea

With our squirrels taking a break, we focus our attention on another campus neighbor. Recently, passing by the Presbytery, this neighbor, a praying mantis, was spotted on the wall. Easily spotted against a white wall, this ambush predator would be most difficult to spot in the wild. On being spotted, this mantis non-verbaled, "Scram! You're drawing too much attention."

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Friday, September 25, 2026

It seems like...

Go Steds: Miller, Theis, Sansone, and Lynch...

... a month ago, but it's only been a week! Steds Moms and Dads of the Class of 2023 gathered Michigan State weekend, with and without their sons, to renew and strengthen bonds of friendship as well as cheer on the Irish. And what a time they all had! From conversations to roof top dinners to good old fashion socializing at and away from their Airbnb, Beth Miller, Maria Theis, Tina Sansone, and Linda Lynch convened it all. And when it was all over, not only were their smiles all about but also the unspoken thought of "I need a weekend from the weekend." Before the game and with Mother Nature cooperating, Tina and Rod Sansone hosted a tailgate on Library Quad to help fuel all that cheering for the Irish. On the weekend and the tailgate, Tina Sansone shared, "Our Steds family and friends had an absolutely amazing time at our annual tailgate.  It was wonderful bringing everyone together - especially our sons.  With enduring friendships, perfect weather, Fr Ralph’s blessings, and a fantastic Notre Dame victory over Michigan State, it was a day to remember.  Truly, not many moments in life can beat a combination like that!"

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... Steds Moms with their other halves...

... who started with this...

... and later, it turned into this! Thanks Steds Moms and Dads!

Thursday, September 24, 2026

Just an ordinary...

Smiles all around at Ed's: Petrides and Sommer

... night at Steds. Yes, it was just an ordinary night at Steds, studying, playing pool, and of course patronizing Ed's. Taking his study break at Ed's, Michael Petrides, Steds sophomore and resident New Jerseyan, placed his order with both an Ed's culinary representative and member of the ND Cheer Team. That's right, Robby Sommer, Steds sophomore and resident Illinoisan, is a member of both distinguished teams. Whether he's throwing paninis on the grill or throwing his cheer partner in the air at the game, Sommer does it all with a smile. On Sommer's dual serving, an unnamed Stedsman said, "He's truly a renaissance man." 

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Wednesday, September 23, 2026

What are they...

Kelly with his dad and cousins in tow...

... doing? A little late, yes, but a question we must ask nevertheless ask. Yes, what are our Stedsmen doing now that they no longer have classes to attend, papers to procrastinate writing, nor any thing else for that matter, especially if they have graduated?! Indeed, what are they doing this summer?! Well, some are busy at work, and that's certainly NOT what President Tommy Kelly '26 is doing... working. Tommy, joined by his dad and cousins, made their annual pilgrimage to Ireland to ascend Croagh Patrick in County Mayo.  An annual climb for Tommy and his family, the climb is a place of pilgrimage as St. Patrick spent forty days at the top fasting and in prayer. Atop Croagh Patrick is a church, and on Reek Sunday, the last Sunday in July, thousands ascend the holy mountain. On reaching the top of Croagh Patrick, Kelly shared, "At the top of Croagh Patrick, two American priests celebrated Mass in the chapel. One of them happened to be a Notre Dame grad and former Zahm resident!"


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... and they made it to the chapel...

... and enjoyed the view... Erin go Bragh!








Tuesday, September 22, 2026

Part two...

Raus (L) and Lis (R) chumming around on base...

... for the Rauses. Recently, when ND played Rice, Peter and Emily Raus were on the sidelines, but now, they're on their way to Japan. Yes, that's right... Japan! But it's not for a more vacay. No, these Californians are on their way to the land of the rising sun so that Peter may report for his stationing as a Navy helicopter pilot. And despite a typhoon wreaking havoc in Japan, Emily and Peter are still leaving TODAY for a multi-year deployment and a big Asian adventure. On Emily and Peter moving to Japan, Fr. Ralph said, "Good luck and... Sayonara!" 


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... while Haag remembers happier times!

Monday, September 21, 2026

A Gentleman...

Soler speaks, and the Gentlemen listen...

... ponders entrepreneurship. Gathering in the historic, yet commodious, Gregorian Lounge, the Gentlemen listened to Frank Soler '14, Stedsman, former Steds Hall President, and resident New Yorker, as he shared his career insights. Yes, this favorite son of New York, Stedsman, was a finance man of Wall Street, but now finds himself working for himself as he started his own real estate business with other Notre Dame and Steds classmates. Soler returned home to Steds to share his insights and career advice for all those interested in being a leader, like the Founder, Fr Sorin, exploring different career paths within the "major/minor ecosystem" of Notre Dame. On partaking in the pondering, Matthew Mazzoli, Steds freshman and resident South Carolinian, shared, "It was inspiring to see someone who once walked the same hallways as me go on to accomplish so much, but even more meaningful to see how humble and willing Soler was to come back and share his experiences and knowledge with us."

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... the President (L) smiles and congrats Soler (R).

Sunday, September 20, 2026

Your Sunday picture...

Steds: Sleeping In

Here's a sight that we all know and love, and after a night game, we love it even more. Why? Because after a late night win, it's the best place to sleep in on campus. Yes, you guessed it. It a slow Sunday morning here at Steds. Enjoy the view and your Sunday wherever you may be!

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Saturday, September 19, 2026

Saturday squirrel.

Working away

Our furry friends are busy. Oh, they look as if they are living a life of frivolity, but they're not. They're actually busy at work but just making it look like fun. And what work are they busy at doing? Getting ready for winter of course. This squirrel found a treasure that he promptly buried for a later time, when times are lean. But will he remember where he buried it? On being spotted, this squirrel non-verbaled, "Of course, I'll remember, but I'll still ask for a hand out!"

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Friday, September 18, 2026

Folgers at...

Fay (in blazer): Folgering it up at Four

... four is a Friday tradition. And the recipe for this Friday Steds staple is simple... Folgers, doughnuts, and conversation... all at 4pm. Oh, the doughnuts may be off sometimes, but the conversation is always spot on... lively and engaging.  Returning to campus from the upcoming game, Eoghan Fay '22 and NDLS '26, made an appearance at his my favorite Friday diversion. On attending Folgers, Fay shared, "Attending Folgers was like being a spectator at the School of Athens... only with doughnuts!"

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Thursday, September 17, 2026

It was...

The Alumni are here...

... an evening of networking. Steds sophomores, juniors, and seniors had an opportunity to network with over twenty-five Steds Alumni in the familiar and relaxed environment of the private dining rooms of the Morris Inn. Coming from California to New York, San Diego to Chicago, and even Vegas, and representing various majors from history to aerospace, finance to computer science and everything else in between, the Gentlemen had the opportunity to engage their fellow Stedsmen, asking any and all questions about careers paths, internships, resume review, and advice... all those things that one cannot learn in the classroom nor receive from the Career Center. And all of this was timely because next week is the Fall Career Fair! On participating in the Gentlemen for Gentlemen: Networking with the Family, Dr. Cole Edwards '20, Steds alumnus and now resident Nevadian, said, "It’s always great coming back to campus, but it’s especially great meeting the next generation of Stedsmen and sharing some of things that we’ve learned since graduating. Anything for the kids!"


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... for the kids...

... networking with their Steds family.

Wednesday, September 16, 2026

Houston...

The old fire hydrant switcher-roo

... we have a problem. Yes, at the corner of Zahm and Keenan Halls, there is a fire hydrant; a fire hydrant that was in need of replacing. To replace this hydrant, which like Zahm Hall had become a safety issue, the water had to be turned off to Keenan, Zahm, AND Steds. Shut off promptly at 9am and despite the diligence of the maintenance workers, the water remained shut off well past Noon. When the water finally did come back on, there was much rejoicing. On the water being off for at least five hours, Owen Murphy, Steds freshman and resident Virginian, stated, "“ came to Notre Dame expecting many challenges, but I never imagined one of them would be finding water in my residence hall. A most serious inconvenience. Luckily, the Hesburgh reflecting pool offered a reprieve for my thirst.”

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Tuesday, September 15, 2026

Late, but...

Never looked better!

... not forgotten. Indeed, this posting is overdue, but thankfully, it wasn't forgotten. As Fr. Ralph is celebrating his twenty year of being the Steds Rector, former resident, RA, and resident Minnesotan, Andrew "Andy" Thomas '10, broke out his freshman welcome week shirt. Yes, that's right... that shirt is twenty years old. And like Fr. Ralph, the shirt is hiding its age well. On this rare wearing of vintage, bespoke Steds, Thomas said, "In honor of Move-In Weekend 2026, I had to break out my Frosh-O shirt from 20 years ago. Yes, 20 years ago. Have a great start to the year!"

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Monday, September 14, 2026

A special...

Peter and Emily were there...

... experience is loved by everyone but especially when it has to do with Notre Dame football. That is what Emily and Peter Raus '23 were treated to this past weekend when Notre Dame took on the Owls of Rice. Enjoying great weather, the Rauses also enjoyed, thanks to a friend who is the director of recruiting for football, pre-game field passes. Suffice it to say, it was amazing experience. On returning to campus, Steds, and now, the football field on game day, Raus shared, "Emily and I have watched Irish football in many austere locations—Chapel Hill, Los Angeles, Raleigh and Palo Alto—and despite all that, the old saying rings true, 'there’s no where quite like home!'"

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... and she can prove it too!